Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger?
Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger?

There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given by the Chinese......

Thumb represents your Parents
Second (Index) finger represents your Siblings
Middle finger represents your-Self
Fourth (Ring) finger represents your Life Partner
& the Last (Little) finger represents your children

Firstly, open your palms (face to face), bend the middle fingers and hold them together - back to back
Secondly, open and hold the remaining three fingers and the thumb - tip to tip

Now, try to separate your thumbs (representing the parents)..., they will open, because your parents are not destined to live with you lifelong, and have to leave you sooner or later.

Please join your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers (representing siblings)...., they will also open, because your brothers and sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their own separate lives.
Now join the Index fingers and separate your Little fingers (representing your children)...., they will open too, because the children also will get married and settle down on their own some day.
Finally, join your Little fingers, and try to separate your Ring fingers (representing your spouse).
You will be surprised to see that you just CANNOT....., because Husband & Wife have to remain together all their lives - through thick and thin!!

Unknown "Jiahe" Wild - 15 years, 9 months, 19 days ago

A Story to live by



There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She
hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always
there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see
the world, I will marry you.'




One day,
someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages
came off, she was able to see everything, including her
boyfriend.





He asked
her,'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The
girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The
sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected
that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life
led her to refuse to marry him.





Her
boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her
saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before
they were yours, they were mine.'





This is
how the human brain often works when our status changes.
Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who
was always by their side in the most painful situations.





Life Is a
Gift





Today
before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't
speak.





Before
you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone
who has nothing to eat.





Before
you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone
who's crying out to GOD for a companion.





Today
before you complain about life - Think of someone who died
too early on this earth.





Before
you complain about your children - Think of someone who
desires children but they're barren.





Before
you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or
sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets.





Before
whining about the distance you drive Think of someone who
walks the same distance with their feet.





And when
you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the
unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your
job.





But
before you think of pointing the finger or condemning
another - Remember that not one of us is without sin.





And when
depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on
your face and think: you're alive and still
around.

Unknown "Jiahe" Wild - 15 years, 11 months, 12 days ago

"yesterday i dream about some terrorist surrounding my house ..and they are just about to shoot me ...but suddenly i managed to runaway ... now i believe ..that the fact is ..nobody can dream about own self to die " taken from a chat room, quite funny.. =)
Unknown "Jiahe" Wild - 15 years, 11 months, 28 days ago

To really love a woman
To understand her
You gotta know her deep inside
Hear every thought
See every dream
And give her wings when she wants to fly

And when you find yourself
Lying helpless in her arms
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman
You tell her that she�s really wanted
When you love a woman
You tell her that she�s the one
She needs somebody
To tell her that it�s gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman

To really love a woman
Let her hold you
Do you know how she needs to be touched ?
You gotta breath her
Really taste her
To you can feel her in your blood
Then when you can see your unborn children in her eyes
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman
You tell her that she�s really wanted
When you love a woman
You tell her that she�s the one
She needs somebody
To tell her that you�ll always be together
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman

You got to give her some faith
Hold her tight
A little tenderness
You gotta treat her right
She�ll be there for you
Taking good care of you
You really gotta love your woman

And when you find yourself
Lying helpless in her arms
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman
You tell her that she�s really wanted
When you love a woman
You tell her that she�s the one
She needs somebody
To tell her that it�s gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman
Just tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman
Just tell me have you ever really
Really really ever loved a woman.


Unknown "Jiahe" Wild - 16 years ago

Life is full of choices,
If one day you made the wrong choice, what would you do??
Cry over spilled milk or take it easy? (this is another choice that had to be made)

Life is short.. Be brave and make bold moves.. =D
Unknown "Jiahe" Wild - 16 years, 13 days ago