Quote for the day:
'Whatever you give a woman, she's going to multiply. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.
If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal.
If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her.
So - if you give her any crap, you can expect a ton of shit.'
Love and appreciate all the women in your life.



Unknown "Pauls Darlin Sal" Feisty - 16 years, 2 months, 4 days ago

Attitude

The longer I live,
the more I realize the impact of attitude on life.

Attitude to me is more important than the past,
than education,
than money,
than circumstances,
than failures,
than success,
than what other people think, or say, or do.

It is more important than appearance,
giftedness, or skill.
It will make or break an organization,
a school, a home.

The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday
regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day.

We cannot change our past..
We cannot change the fact that people will
act in a certain way.
We cannot change the inevitable.
The only thing we can do
is play on the one string we have,
and that is our attitude….

I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me
and 90% how I react to it.

And so it is with you…..
Unknown "Pauls Darlin Sal" Feisty - 16 years, 3 months, 4 days ago

This tale is another tale of how the world forms and shapes us and the pressure we can be under as individuals.

I had a young client come to see me last week, 22 years old, mother of a young 2 year old boy. She had come very reluctantly to ask for food. This was a young woman in what should have been the prime of her life at the bottom of the cliff.
I could see she was in a poor state, she looked so tired and under that knitted hat and dark circled eyes stood an extremely pretty and intelligent person.
Her tale all started with a car accident, she wasnt insured the other party wanted money and had threatened her. She sold everything she had that was worth anything to pay him, down to her fridge freezer.With the remainder of what was left he demanded $55 a week from her benefit of $140.
After paying for that and power and other bills she is left with $20 week for food, this she spends on her son so he doesnt starve and just manages on what people give her to eat for herself. This had been going on for 6 weeks when i saw her so you can imagine how undernourished she was.
Then to top it all a friend of hers had informed her that there may be an easy way out of her predicament. This was stripping! Well my client had to put aside all her insecurities and her lack of confidence and went to the club to give it a go, obviously the club owner was pleased to have her, she was young VULNERABLE and a great asset for his club.
Well she hated stripping she spent 10 hours and all she got was $25 for her trouble.
Her life had hit rock bottom when she came to us and she couldnt see a way forward, i let her cry for a bit then pointed out there is always a way out.
I called the benefit office and arranged an emergency food voucher so she could stock up her cuboards, i gave her enough food for 2 weeks. I then rang the person who had been fleecing her and negotiated to $10 using some strong language i have to admit and a threat of police and the papers.
She could now have a few weeks to breathe get herself back on her feet send her son to kindy as she now had clingfilm for his sandwhiches, it had even got as bad as not sending him because she couldnt afford anything to wrap his food in :(
She wasnt going to strip anymore, she hated it,

Doesn't it make you think that many of the girls who do this are forced by society, by pressures. It's not just getting involved in that seedy world and then getting hooked in, some peoplel have no other choice
Unknown "Pauls Darlin Sal" Feisty - 16 years, 3 months, 6 days ago

A Quiz for me & my Friends! Cut & Paste at will!!!!

THREE NAMES YOU GO BY:
1. Sally-Anne
2. Sal
3. mum
THREE SCREEN NAMES YOU HAVE HAD:
1.sal delores
2. hazelnuttlatte
3. forgetmenot

THREE THINGS YOU LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF:
1. my passion
2.my resilience
3. my humour

THREE THINGS YOU DON’T LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF:
1. my softness
2. my laugh
3. my pride
THREE PARTS OF YOUR HERITAGE:
1. welsh
2.jewish
3. cardiffian

THREE THINGS THAT SCARE YOU:
1. fragility of life
2. man with a gun
3. never being able to love

THREE OF YOUR EVERYDAY ESSENTIALS:
1. chat
2. kiss from my daughter
3. my comfy shoes

THREE THINGS YOU ARE WEARING NOW:
1. grey jeans
2. grey and black stripe top
3. pink knickers

THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE BANDS OR MUSICAL ARTISTS:
1. blue october
2. bob marley
3. pavarotti

THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE SONGS (RIGHT NOW):
1. pink not sure what its called
2. elbow
3. new band i'll have to look it up lol

THREE THINGS YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP:
1. LOVE
2. commitment
3. trust

TWO TRUTHS AND A LIE, IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER:
1. I have no patience
2. I share a love for midgets
3. I am an advocate for anyone

THREE PHYSICAL THINGS ABOUT THE PREFERRED SEX THAT APPEAL TO YOU:
1. hands
2. eyes
3. mannerisms

THREE OF YOUR FAVORITE HOBBIES:
1. computer
2. sitting by the sea
3. sharing great news stories

THREE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO REALLY BADLY RIGHT NOW:
1. share a latte with someone interesting
2. discover something new and exciting
3. sit in the sun

THREE CAREERS YOU’RE CONSIDERING/YOU’VE CONSIDERED:
1. drop in centre
2. a gift shop
3. prison warden (LOL) can u imagine

THREE PLACES YOU WANT TO GO ON VACATION:
1. australia
2. wales
3. canada

THREE NAMES YOU LIKE:
1. Gabrielle
2. Daisy-Mae
3. Sienna

THREE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO BEFORE YOU DIE:
1. Be fullfilled
2. Achieve something
3. Invent something

THREE WAYS THAT YOU ARE STEREOTYPICALLY A Girl
1. I sit to pee
2. I love makeup and perfume
3. I love girly underwear

THREE WAYS THAT YOU ARE NOT STEREOTYPICALLY A Girl
1. Love sport with a passion
2. Can talk better to men
3. Have more male friends than female

THREE PEOPLE THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEE TAKE THIS QUIZ NOW:
1. Tim
2. Phil
3. Marc

Unknown "Pauls Darlin Sal" Feisty - 16 years, 3 months, 11 days ago

CATTERGORIES. ..it's harder than it looks! Copy the lot, erase my answers, enter yours, and post it in your own Tales. Use the 1st letter of your name to answer each of the following. They have to be real places, names, things.. nothing made up! Google comes in very handy when you are drunk and trying to answer them. LOL lots.

Try to use different answers if the person in front of you had the same 1st initial. You CAN'T use your name for the boy/girl name question.

YOUR NAME: Sally
BOYS NAME:simon
4LETTER WORD:sock
GIRL NAME:salina
OCCUPATION:shopfitter
A COLOUR: scarlet
SOMETHING YOU WEAR: shirt
BEVERAGE:secretary
FOOD:semolina
SOMETHING FOUND IN A BATHROOM:scent
A PLACE :slovakia
REASON FOR BEING LATE: slept in
SOMETHING YOU SHOUT OUT: shut the fuck up!!
CELEBRITY NAME: stevie wonder
MOVIE OR TV SHOW: shawshank redemption
ANIMAL: sheep

Credits go to Paul Franzi for this one


Unknown "Pauls Darlin Sal" Feisty - 16 years, 3 months, 16 days ago