Love is an affection for and devotion to another person based on shared experiences and interest. It is something that elicits deep interest and enthusiasm for somebody. Love is simplicity, innocence, wonder, trust and anticipation. It turns friendship into something more. It is an intense feeling of attraction and compassion towards another. Love is an infatuation used to describe an intense crush on someone. Love is a very powerful and heartwarming emotion. The one constant of love is that it is unconditional and knows no boundaries.
Love is a state of mind, a matter of the heart, an unknown feeling. It glows from the inside out, and cannot be fully described. It is a mystery touching you in places never before known. Love is a blissful emotion that leads to euphoria. It is an unconditional connection of the heart, mind and soul of two people. It gives you a sense of belonging and acceptance, radiating warmth throughout.
Love can be expressed in many ways, none are right or wrong. The connection and existence of love shared by two is obvious to all around them. The complete connection of two people in love of heart, mind, body and soul is beyond any boundaries or rules. When you are in love you have a feeling of piece and tranquility
Love is a personal commitment to another. It is an unconditional connection of emotions that gives a sense of belonging and unconditional acceptance. It is the want and desire to have, hold, cherish, protect and please another, and get nothing in return. Love is a state of being between two, a way of life. When it is present you become a whole, a unit, a team, working together for a shared life of dreams, goals and ambitions. It is a strength shared by two. A bond of love is one that holds two hearts, souls, bodies and minds together. Love is the wonder and excitement of bringing two together to form one.
Love is yours to learn from and grow in, it is immeasurable, complicated, painful, blissful and sorrowful. It is all encompassing, exhilarating and exhausting. It can be euphoric and marvelous and then it can be hideous and heartless. Love brings happiness, but not without work and sometimes heartache. Love is blind to outside influences. There are no boundaries or conditions to its existence.
Love is the best feeling in the world. It causes palpation's of the heart that makes you giddy with happiness and silly with nervousness. The best love of all is when you get nervous, causing butterflies to flutter in your stomach or weak in the knees just by being with someone. It is the unexpected surprise that causes that warm tingly feeling to take hold of you.
Love is like a rose; it buds and slowly blossoms into a crescendo of color and beauty. Like the rose pedal, it is soft and yielding, exquisite to the touch but fragile. Taking time to grow, but once it has blossomed it is a beautiful thing to see.
Love conquers all; it is what makes the world go round some say. Everyone needs love in his or her life, without it we are not whole. Love makes us happy and sad, confident and insecure, content and unhappy all at the same time. Love is a wondrous thing, even more so with true love. Because, it knows no bounds of time or space, even in death.
What is Commitment?
Is it a state of being obligated or emotionally impelled to a course of action? Is it pledging or agreeing on the future? Is it entrusting in someone's obligations, binding them to a state of mind, or a way of life?
Consider it a given that commitment means working towards a permanent relationship. It means giving everything you have to a relationship, meeting every new challenge with courage, and always working together to keep what you have and build an even brighter future. It is the pledge to devote your best talents and efforts to making and keeping your relationship healthy, satisfying and rewarding which is the essence of a commitment.
Commitment to one's self. Committing to one's self is important because you can't work on committing to anyone else before you are committed to yourself. Being honest enough with your self to see that you have to love, trust and respect yourself first. Taking peace and comfort in the fact that trusting yourself allows you to trust others.
The path I am on is the path I chose to walk. I trust that where I walk is the direction of my destiny. The path that intertwines my path with yours bringing us closer together.
Commitment to others. Commitment to others involves many things. Trusting in the fact that they always will be honest and loyal to you and that it takes an inordinate commitment of time and effort is one thing. A successful partnership also demands integrity, honesty, openness, and respect from both parties. Sure of the fact that they always have your best interest at heart. Knowing that, when someone is committed to you there is peace and comfort in the knowledge that you have their steadfast love. And, they will always be there for you through all the peaks and valleys. That they will protect, teach, learn and grow together, building a bond with you toward common goals and a lifetime of closeness.
The path you are on is the path I choose to walk. Where you lay your head is where I shall lay mine. No matter the trials that lay in our way, I will be at your side. When you are strong I will walk beside you, when you are weak I will carry you. As we go through this journey fulfilling our destiny, our paths forged over time as one. Our love encompassing the journey and paving the path we are on. Through the peaks and valleys of our lives, until death parts us from our entwined path.
Remember that the greatest gain involves the greatest risk. You have to be willing to be vulnerable in order to be ready to receive what you want. There are no guarantees where love is concerned. If you want love and human connection be prepared to take some risk. A committed relationship takes work and the willingness to change. diOr kitty"diOr Kitty"Hurt
- 9 years, 25 days ago
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you, as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think, "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you’re always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone smile, another rethinks her choices, And another woman prepare. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, An hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. diOr kitty"diOr Kitty"Hurt
- 9 years, 25 days ago
This is my cute Shihtzu puppy. She is the most adorable one EVER. and I love her so much !!!
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- 9 years, 1 month, 12 days ago
It’s so easy to “fall” into it, yet so hard to see that its either not real or to see when it has ended. I wonder is love supposed to be this HARD? I mean it’s great when we’re having a “good” day, but when we’re having a bad day, it’s like “Fuck you, I’d rather die than talk to you.” Yeah, we get intense sometimes, but just like the Stylistics said “We break up to make up…that’s all we do. First you love me, then you hate me. That’s a game for fools.” Yet WE play it. I always tell myself after every fight that I’m tired of it. Done. No more, yet I realize the good greatly outweighs the bad and I stay. Many people always tell me “You can do better, he ain’t shit and he doesn’t deserve you.” I think what keeps us together is the fact that even though we’ve hurt each other, we do in fact really love each other, almost to the point of unconditionally. All I’m saying is, if you really love him and he loves you truly and deeply…things will usually work themselves out. because you and him know your relationship best, regardless what others think. No one knows a relationship like the couple that are in it, and even sometimes they don’t know it. Follow your heart but still be aware of your mind. It seems like we’ve all been down this road before. It’s funny how we can ask our friend for their opinions when we really don’t want to hear it. When they say “you guys will make up” that’ll make you mad because they’re supposed to have your back. When they say “get over him” you feel like aren’t you supposed to be here supporting me because what you’re saying is just making it worse. Love is a complicated subject but if you have something worth fighting for hopefully you will keep fighting though, and if it’s not worth it then hopefully you will find the strength to walk away. diOr kitty"diOr Kitty"Hurt
- 9 years, 1 month, 12 days ago
I have a crush with someone I know from Facebook. He is Chinese Indonesian who lives in my town too. We have been talking on the phone for about 3 weeks. Me and him were deeeply in love. He said my Physical Appearance is not important, the most important is that he loves me the way I am. I dun trust him at first.. but he kept saying that physical apperance is not important that I have to trust him that he won't hurt me and leave me just like that. I decided to meet him.. very nervous but so excited.. I'll make short the story.. in fact when he saw my appearance, he doesn't like me because I dont look like Chinese Indonesian girls (particularly i am a Chinese Indonesian, just my skin is kinda dark) and today i find that he starts ignoring me.. i realize he is totally different with he was 3 weeks ago.. Actually I know that i have to face the reality that he doesn't like me.. I accept it with big heart.. i know that i cant force someone to like me.. I believe he would get someone who is alot better than me.. I hope he will find that someone soon :) diOr kitty"diOr Kitty"Hurt
- 9 years, 1 month, 14 days ago