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Nicole Shen
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Nicole Shen, 42/Female
Last login: over 3 weeks ago
Local time:8:11 PM
Join date:15 years, 11 months, 29 days ago
Location: United States

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Nicole's tales
Nicole Shen
Christmas is ALWAYS my favorite time of year. Not only because of gift giving (which I enjoy more than receiving believe it or not) but also because of the festivities...the putting up of the tree...

I always dreamed of a white christmas. Growing up in HK and then now living in LA that isn't nearly as possible as I would like it to be...

Anyways, here is hoping you all have a wonderful and safe holiday season :)


Nicole Shen "My Love" Loyal - 15 years, 11 months, 24 days ago
Nicole Shen
Change - What Makes a Person

Most people do not feel change taking place within them. One of the reasons why this is so might be because change is happening in every moment of our lives. Looking at it from a scientific view, babies are born intellectually empty, devoid of memory or experience. Every detail that our senses take in triggers reactions in our brain, though at most times it is unconsciously. All of these little details and experiences of our lives are what shape us and change us. Humans are like sponges. We are constantly absorbing knowledge and feeding our thirst with the waters of substance. Change can be so minute or at times so significant. Even in the face of a distinctive event though, I am unable to comprehend the kind of ramifications that could occur to affect me. It is only through comparing who I am now to who I was before that I realize that, amazingly enough, I have changed.

I moved to the United States from HK almost 10 years ago. My whole motivation was to push myself to live a life that was completely the opposite of the one I was used to and grew up with. I wanted to push myself to be more independent, downt-to-earth, simple and real; to see things from a different perspective to the one I was used to seeing. My life was too comfortable and I felt that comfort meant a person was not improving or changing. To many that seemed totally outrageous. A lot of my friends questioned me and asked "Nicole, why would you leave such a secure and comfortable life for something so unknown, to suffer for what?" My reply was simple - I wanted to learn more about myself and to see myself outside of the bubble I was so accustomed to. I wanted to be better. I wanted to find the real me.

If I had to label myself, I’d say that I was your typical child; carefree, impatient and devoid of any form of stress or concern for anything. It was a mindless existence that I lived in through my childhood because I was given pretty much everything I wanted. Basically, I was ignorant and I wouldn’t have given a rat’s ass if anyone had told me that. My parents told me that as a child, I rarely cried, complained or asked for anything. I was a laid-back child. School was not really something I thought of or tried hard at. I had my share of mischief accompanied by hordes of detentions and lectures, all of which I handled with complete apathy. Learning was an obligation that, fortunately, I just happened to do well at. Most of my days were spent on sports and other active forms of entertainment.

One particular hobby that I remember from my childhood was catching fireflies while spending summers in Scarsdale, New York. I used to capture them then place them in a jar and watch them glow until they died. I didn’t really think of it as cruel. Actually, I found it entertaining and something most kids in the US did. In a way, I think of myself as that firefly now. I know that I can be trapped temporarily, and that I’ll be the one under the scrutiny of people as I heave my heavy weight along. But I will find some inventive way to keep moving along. I know that I can be adaptive and resourceful. As a child, I already knew how to be blasé and casual about predicaments I might find myself in. So at a young age, I mastered the art of simply placing one foot in front of the other and always remaining composed, whether knee deep in trouble or trudging through six miles of boredom. This sense of rationality has proved to be one of my most useful tools. I’m glad that I realized, so early in my life, that I am steady and independent enough to be confident.

As a result of this realization, ambition grew. At times, school did not feel like such an obligation. Like a sponge, I wanted to soak up all the knowledge there was to learn. I’m not so ignorant anymore either, though sometimes I wish that I could just turn my head in the other direction and walk away. For such an undaunted child, I’ve turned out to be so apprehensive and eager for experience and life. There are hardly any challenges that I wouldn’t willingly take on.

The many emotional and social factors that I underwent throughout my life are what make up who I am today and determine why I act or feel the way I do. I can be so passionate…naive and trust in a conception such as always believing in people despite the countless times I have been hurt, with such conviction too. I don’t even know where I got half the ideas and principles that I have developed because I was so sheltered. However, my teenage years did teach me a thing or two about the painful realities of life. That life does not escape anyone.

I do know that that same nonchalance that was embodied in me as a child, is in me still. Only now, it contains neither ignorance nor laziness anymore. It is my way of coping and adapting. I have discovered that there is not always a solution to a problem but there is always an option and I try to make the best out of any situation, no matter how hard.

It is with this attitude that I go forth in life, with a willing smile and an eager approach regarding anything that might come. I have no idea what the future might surprise or attack me with. Whatever obstacles I might come upon, I believe with confidence that I will be able to face it and still laugh. Just like those fireflies, I will look at a situation where my wings are gone and the circumstance seems like it leads to nothing but a dead end. But unlike those fireflies, I will not keep trying to flap wings which are gone and end up defeated out of disappointment. Using the practicality and resourcefulness that I possess, I will take initiative and squeeze the last positive drop out of a certain condition.

So let the future come. No problem. My thirst will devour the sweet heart of this watermelon.


Nicole Shen "My Love" Loyal - 15 years, 11 months, 27 days ago
Nicole Shen
Well, this cute little bear is new to HumanPets and her habitat. Please someone love me...pet me...play with me...and show me the way :)
Nicole Shen "My Love" Loyal - 15 years, 11 months, 28 days ago
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Hi Nicole, I hope you are well :)

I just wanted to thank you for joining Pay It Forward, we hope to see more of you soon.
Much love xxx
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SOUL FOOd c[: *wings* You have been given SOUL FOOd c[: *wings*.
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