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Perplexed
"Smiley"
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Lips , 45/Female
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Last login: | over 3 weeks ago |
Local time: | 5:27 PM |
Join date: | 16 years, 10 months, 28 days ago |
Location: | Allentown, PA United States
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"Sugar and spice and EVERYTHING nice..." |
About me:
I'm a quiet girl when you first meet me, but if you give it time you will see that I can be as loud as the best of them. If I were to identify my biggest passions in life it would be music, being active, laughing and helping others. I love listening to music and you will often see me singing in my car. Next time you are at a stoplight and see someone jamming away, think of me :) I also am really getting into weight lifting and riding my mountain bike. Being outside and getting your body moving really does wonders for your spirit. I love laughing so hard that tears come out of your eyes and your stomach hurts. Whenever I can create that effect for someone else I feel great. My last passion is one I need to focus more time on. Hopefully soon I will identify a place to volunteer and help those most in need.
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About you:
I'm up for meeting all kinds of people. That being said, my basic requirements are that you have a good heart and treat others with the respect that they deserve.
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Looking for: | Friendship |
Orientation: | Straight
| Herds (lead): | Kara needs points | Herds: | The Black Raven, Lord Spamalots Palace, mi herd., ♀ Mina's Bananas ♂, Halse's, Rhona's RTF | |
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Lips's tales
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Nine new tales added recently...check em out!! :)
Lips "Smiley" Perplexed
- 16 years, 6 months, 5 days ago
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Finding ourselves and then finding healthy relationships is a goal of recovery. To find a loved one and share in a rich companionship is one of the most precious things we can experience in life. When two healthy humans enter a relationship they have the necessary ingredient it takes to get off to a good start – they feel complete unto themselves. Their desire for companionship is not based on a dependent need, but on a mutual respect and love for the uniqueness of the other. When I find who I am and hold myself in esteem, I will have what I need to enter loving relationships.
Lips "Smiley" Perplexed
- 16 years, 6 months, 5 days ago
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Like physical wounds, emotional wounds heal imperceptibly from the inside out. A sort of knitting together takes place, fiber by fiber, until one day we come to a healing. Patience and openness to change has allowed the miracle to occur. Occasionally we are blessed with thunderbolt healings and we are very grateful. These are truly gifts. Most healing comes a little at a time as we are willing and able to change and grow. Recovery is a process that requires patience and respect for the small miracles that occur daily that lead us to wholeness. Each day I have the opportunity to heal. I need only to persist and have patience that my day of healing will come.
Lips "Smiley" Perplexed
- 16 years, 6 months, 5 days ago
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Something I have taken to heart... When we are insecure within ourselves, it is easy to feel slighted by even the most benign behavior of others. We take personally things that were not meant to offend and think that others are talking behind out backs. What we are doing is projecting on to them our own negative feelings about ourselves. We all need to realize that the eyes of the world are not focused on us.
Lips "Smiley" Perplexed
- 16 years, 6 months, 5 days ago
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How painful it is at times to make choices. We want the best of both worlds. Yet, most of the time this simply cannot be. We need to give up one thing to gain something else. As we seek guidance from our higher power and from our friends we are helped to see the choice which will bring us our greatest good. The feeling of loss is also real and we need to acknowledge this pain. By facing our pain we are able to let go of the loss and go on once again. May I have the courage to get off the fence and make a choice. As I focus on the growth my loss created, the pain of the loss will dissipate.
Lips "Smiley" Perplexed
- 16 years, 6 months, 5 days ago
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