VIRGO Modest and shy. Meticulous and reliable. Practical and diligent. Intelligent and analytical. ...and on the DARKER side... Fussy and a worrier. Overcritical and harsh. Perfectionist and conservative.
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not part of it...
Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow...
Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves. On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection, to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return.
How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.
But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know that they were the things that helped you grow.
Loving someone means giving her the freedom to find her way whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry, if you're not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love coz every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love.
Whatever happens, don't give up! It is just a trial. After all, God will not give you trials that you can't handle. Have faith and cheer up.
When you decide to love, allow it to grow. When you promise to love, refuse to let it die. isabelle "~mahturtle~"Hurt
- 12 years, 1 month, 25 days ago
I Could Not Ask For More ~Edwin McCain~
Lying here with you Listening to the rain Smiling just to see the smile upon your face These are the moments I thank God that I'm alive These are the moments I'll remember all my life I found all I've waited for And I could not ask for more
Looking in your eyes Seeing all I need Everything you are is everything to me These are the moments I know heaven must exist These are the moments I know all I need is this I have all I've waited for And I could not ask for more
I could not ask for more than this time together I could not ask for more than this time with you Every prayer has been answered Every dream I have has come true And right here in this moment is right where I'm meant to be Here with you here with me
These are the moments I thank God that I'm alive These are the moments I'll remember all my life I've got all I've waited for And I could not ask for more
I could not ask for more than the love you give me 'coz it's all I've waited for And I could not ask for more I could not ask for more
- 12 years, 3 months, 20 days ago
it doesn't matter where you go in life, or what you acquire...
it's who you have beside you that really matters...
- 12 years, 4 months, 7 days ago
other people's opinion of you doesn't have to become your reality... those who follow the crowd usually get lost in it...
we don't know the key to success, but one key to failure is to please everyone... why waste time thinking what others will tel you? instead, do what makes you happy... live life and don't let life make you live... isabelle "~mahturtle~"Hurt
- 12 years, 4 months, 24 days ago
"You shouldn't have to sacrifice who you are just because somebody else has a problem with it..."
-Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City isabelle "~mahturtle~"Hurt
- 12 years, 5 months, 7 days ago