How this relationship nonsense usually works:
1. You go out on a couple of dates "if you like each other eventually you'll have sex" and then if you're happy with the action you
2. Become boyfriend and girlfriend....which is really fun for like 3 months and then you realize it’s becoming like work! Then you dump her.. "Or not" .. If not, then
3. You move in together.. If this works out too, then you have to face it.. You're
4. Getting married.. Then you start your strategy of accusations (Knifes, forks, juice or BBQ).. You decide to ignore your problems for now and focus on your career thinking you both would adjust in a way that could help keep the Love Alive.. Then if you're lucky this will impact with fortune up to the limits and after all you might make it.. And now you're thinking you need a bigger place to..
5. Start a Family.. There goes freedom or what was left of it.. Well, now you have to take responsibility..
6. You buy a big house.. Which will seem like what appears to be a glow of shine in the never ending happiness that you 2 love birds share to live in this "HOME" with each other.. Sounds good for a while, then
7. You pop out some kids.. Sick, this is a whole different experience, you're a "Dad" now.. Oh Oo, there goes fun outta the window.. And of course if fun is out, then here comes
8. Fighting.. Or how come you're going to spend your spare time.. Sure it's not your first fight, but it's not the first one I’m talking about.. It's the last one.. The one where all your good ways of expressing how you feel are already spoken and you don't have any other way except telling each other how you Really feel.. You start seeking your past for happiness.. You call some friends, hook up a party just to feel what you used to feel back at the good old times when you where free, when the biggest of your worries was "My mom is gonna freak out if she knew I’m drunk"
Then it's pretty much the usual
9. You cheat on her.
10. You separate.
11. Divorce.
12. You split the shit. "The money you ate shit to collect"...
13. You see your kids on weekends.
14. Then you start this all over again...
"Or Not"
But remember it may "Not" happen to you.
Unknown "Mugzi" Calm
- 16 years, 4 months, 26 days ago