DECREE ABSOLUTE AT LONG LAST 12th JAN 2009 WILL BE ONE ANNIVERSARY I WILL ALWAYS CELEBRATE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Joe Klesnil "SEXY BLUE EYES" 12th JAN 2009 DECREE ABSOLUTE !! - 15 years, 3 months, 25 days ago

Beware ! When you start that all important relationship, you always make that pact - If you fall out of love that you will talk about it - but the need I have found for the women I have known is not to tell the truth but to look after themselves to feather their nests ! Hence the lies and the deciept and when they are caught out and cornered then they still lie even to solicitors , judges and even their own kids - when will people learn that if you cheat with a cheater one of you will do it again ?
When will it all be over - five times I have agreed to her terms just to get rid of her for good - yet still she changes her mind - is it because she really is evil ???? Or that she wont let go ?? Either way their is nothing for me there anymore, what I thought was love so long ago has now turned to loathing and hatred and for a placid man like me , that is hard to say - not because of what happened in the marriage but what she has done since, her own son has disowned her because of her lies yet she only seems to be happy by making others miserable. So when you make that pact, expect it to last for a year tops !! You always think you know the one you think you love but do you ??
Joe Klesnil "SEXY BLUE EYES" 12th JAN 2009 DECREE ABSOLUTE !! - 15 years, 7 months, 5 days ago

For a Change Good News, My youngest daughter who has had a hard year since her mother walked out has had better grades than she expected after the trauma of the year. I set her a tongue in cheek target which she met, but she is not satisfied so to use her "gap" or third year she is taking more gcse and trying to improve the results on one of the ones she took so she can do her chosen A levels next year. After what has happened I am so proud of her and she should be so proud of herself. Her education is important and she realises it - its a shame her mother didn't think of her daughter instead of herself , still not divorced through her bloody mindedness But it doesnt phase me anymore. let her get on with it.
I firmly believe we atone for our wrongdoings eventually and goodness knows she has a string of them.
Joe Klesnil "SEXY BLUE EYES" 12th JAN 2009 DECREE ABSOLUTE !! - 15 years, 8 months, 16 days ago

I moved over 400 miles from my friends as she wanted a new life and all my friends are miles away or on the internet and at times It gets so lonely. The divorce means I will never get to move back to where I want to be - with my friends But I do have my son and his wife and my lovely grandson near, but my daughter lives in Spain, and I rarely see me other lovely grandson and soon to be another. My grandaughter from my sons first marriage I do not get to see as her mother has formed an ex-wives alliance with my ex and so the lies and poison flow ! Its amazing that people believe the lies she comes out with especially as my youngest daughter was here through the break up and saw what happened and chose to live with me. I have no feelings for my ex except disgust, normally people miss their exs, but in this case what she has done since the break up has far outweighed the cause, I have never ever said I hate anyone but I do hate her, I hate her lies, her deceipt and the fact that she totally ruined her family to the point that her son - My stepson will not talk to her and says he never wants anything to do with her again. I have always loved him as my own and it breaks my heart to see him hurt like that, he is one of my children and always will be.
Joe Klesnil "SEXY BLUE EYES" 12th JAN 2009 DECREE ABSOLUTE !! - 15 years, 9 months, 17 days ago

STILL - NO Absolute - Its amazing that she caused the split and still wants more - Being taken to the cleaners - everything I have built up for retirement is dwindling away - What a fool I have been. Yet she doesn't want to let go even though she has a new life with someone else.
Times like this I just feel like going Life at times is just not worth it - I am not a practising catholic but I do believe in god and the commandments - She has broken all but one Thou shalt not kill - maybe one day she will hit the set. Totall depressed as I dont know what my future will hold. At this moment in time I dont feel I can trust again !
Joe Klesnil "SEXY BLUE EYES" 12th JAN 2009 DECREE ABSOLUTE !! - 15 years, 9 months, 17 days ago