"Never give your all to someone, who doesn't give back in return."
It's hard for an educated woman to turn her head off.
That's part of the joy of being a submissive.
None of the decisions are yours. When you can't
refuse anything and can't even move, those voices
in your head go silent. All you can do, and all
you are permitted to do, is feel.
Love is giving up control. It’s surrendering the
desire to control the other person. The two—love
and controlling power over the other person—are
mutually exclusive. If we are serious about loving
someone, we have to surrender all the desires
within us to manipulate the relationship.