My friend was soooo hurt by this man who seems to have left HP... This is what she wrote on her page...
DRAGON QUEEN Member
USED AND JUST THROWN AWAY!!!
I bought this pet, his name was Brian leeder, he was a great pet and i enjoyed his company. Brian started to romance me, being lonely and in want of some affection, i opened my heart to him. I did not want to at first but he assured me that he would not hurt me in any way. The romance continued on Hp, i was so happy that i had found somebody to love me, i was in the clouds. The two of us chatted on msn, he said that he was going to come down to me in late March. I held onto that dream. I posted on our herd that he specially created for us and on his page which was without a back ground. Brian posted on my page, his items being of a romantic mood, all the while romancing me on msn. Deeper and deeper i went into loving him, he showed me respect and love in every way but sexually. I was smitten by his songs and his words, he even spent some time with me on New years eve, if you read my New Years Tale you will find him in it. I told my family about him and he said that he had told his mother that he was in love with me. I asked him if it was ok to tell my family and he said to to that he didn't mind at all. I had a special background made for him which was created by Lana, my pet, that was my gift to him. All the items he had in his store were not selling so i suggested that he changed them and i gave him pictures from my laptop which i posted in our private herd for him in the herds photos section. He started making points from that. Brian actually told me that he had made 100000 points from them at one point. I was amazed. Out of love, i gifted him a month's membership which he was surprised and happy about. My one friend placed a bid on his auction with 100000 points because she saw how happy i was with him, he never ever thanked me for that even after i had told him that my friend did it for me. I put a background for him in his private herd that he had created for him and myself. He continued to romance me, all my friends saw this, all my family knew this and they just said to me that seeing is believing. Everybody knew that i was in love.
Then he suddenly vanished for a week, not leaving a message, which would have taken 5 minutes to send on here or Via e-mail. I looked for him every where, i was so worried and concerned that something had happened to him, i even had a friend up in Canada to help me, she sat up all night with me (my night), Canada is 7 hours behind me. I couldn't concentrate on what i was doing, i just sat and stared at the picture that i had created for him. I saw that he had written on his profile, "in love with a sweet Wendy" and i thought it would be nice to remove the special new year picture that i had created for all my pets and i posted that one in. I sent him e-mails and messages, none got answered.
Early one morning (his morning) he came on line briefly and told me that his parents were in a car accident, I accepted what he was telling me to be the truth. He also then told me that he would see me that evening after work. That was the last time i heard from him. Again i was stressed out, sent e-mails and messages. posted a message on his page and told him that he i understood that his parents needed him and that i would wait for him, Brian deleted the message and everything else i posted after that. I couldn't understand why. In the meantime, i saw his name on Facebook so i sent him a friend request. I discovered that he was married,. As his profile was updated 2 years ago, i gave him the benefit of the doubt and thought that this was the women he told me about who had died. I still waited for him, i sent him a message and asked him to explain himself.
I saw Brian come on line and asked him to come onto msn, he said that he couldn't as he was by his mother's house and they did not have internet there, he said that he was using his cell. I became angry when i saw that he had bought a pet and i thought to myself that if he had the time to buy a pet (which i did not mind), then surely he should have had time to explain to me what is going on. I went to his page and saw that he had deleted my latest post, so i continued to delete the rest but i had not completed that as i had people visiting and i did not want to be rude. When i was alone, i discovered that he had come on during that time, i clicked to go to his page and discovered that i was blocked, he escaped and took me out of his private herd. He also left my herd. I was so angry!!! why could he had not been man enough to come and face me and tell me the truth instead of running away. I could have accepted that better but the way he behaved just showed me that he had used me to get what he wanted, it wouldn't surprise me if it was all planned out, i cannot say it was but it sure feels that way. I did not want to get involved in the beginning, i fought against it as i have been hurt before but what a fool i was to open my heart yet again. not long after he blocked me, he sent me this message:
BRIAN LEEDER Member
+Add to favorite Message/Item Give a pet Blocked Add an item Animals | Faces | Signs | Silly | Love | Sad | Evil or Hide BRIAN LEEDER 45 minutes ago / 1274 miles away just thought i would say goodbuy
What a cheek he had, firstly he got a new background, new items for his store which came from my laptop, a background in his private herd. a membership as a gift from me, 100000points from a friend of mine, then he escapes making me lose points and blocking me. These are the actions of a man who professed his undying love to me. He has not even offered to give me any points back but that is minor details, the fact that he used me in such a manner makes me sick. I will not let my heart open so easily again, once bitten, twice shy, i will not be a fool again. All my concentration will now be on my herds and thumbing partners. No more distractions. Ladies, watch out for the smooth talkers, learn from my mistake, no rushing into anything, just take it one day at a time and avoid being used and hurt like me. He even sent me a photo of his private parts., be careful all you lonely ladies. I for one does not like to get involved with a married man. That really hurt that he could lie like that. Where was the lady when we spoke on msn?, i never saw her. many huggsssssssss to all the good people out there.
Cheyenne
"♥Chy♥" ♡ Unsupervised ღ
- 14 years, 10 months, 1 day ago
