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Ok, this is me off the top of my head but of course there is alot more to me which Im sure youll discover if you take up a chat with me. I try to be nice (but who in this world can honestly be THAT nice). I am very understanding, honest, generous, cheeky, sensitive and am a very open guy. Ive been told that I have a good sense of humour and maybe u will think so too ;) If you like cute personalities, then I would be your guy... Most people say I have a cute personality. Whatever that means :P I try to be as straight up as I can be, although... I have realised that I havent been as straight up as I thought I was, but I am making an effort to better myself. I think no one is perfect and everyone always has room for improvement, so not something u should hold against me. Well not in my opinion anyway. So yea, always open to constructive criticism. Love it actually... Only so much I can realise about myself. The more I hear, the more chance ive got of becoming a better person :) A friend once told me a saying "Say what u mean, mean what u say, but dont say it mean" and I try to live by this and I hope u do too. not to be so much for my own good and others... Oh yea, I hope you like a bit of a smartass too :P

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HONESTY! HONESTY! HONESTY! Is it really that much to ask? Ok, so some people would rather be lied to than told the blunt ugly truth. Well Im not part of "some" in this case. If someone is lieing, I too often pick up on it and it just confuses and annoys. No good comes from it... So pleaseeeeeee dont lie. I smile when someone tells me that they dont find me aesthetically pleasing. No shit... Thats how much I appreciate honesty! Moving on... Id love to meet someone who most importantly has some depth to them. I wont deny there has to be some physical attraction but personality is so much more important. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and Im 99.9999*% sure that only I understand my taste, so anyone who ever thinks "Nah he wont find me attractive" isnt being reasonable and should truly think about what I said. At the end of the day there needs to be the click and most personality traits dont come into the equation. Main thing is... just to be down to earth and to be a bit or alot different... I find is usually a positive thing. So msg me back and lets see how where it goes. ***UPDATE*** PLZ READ THE NEXT PART ... I have found that its SOOO IMPORTANT! I need the person to be able to speak their mind. If a person hold all their opinions to themselves, than I will never get to know them really. So plzzz, even if your a shyer sort. You got less to lose if your straight forward and opinionative than if you try to tread carefully. Just dont forget tact ;) Im a real easy going guy, so not to worry. I respect peoples opinions and always respect honesty, even if it hurts. So dont be shy :) ***UPDATE*** Just a note... if your not interested and tell me so, I will not be upset so dont be shy. Always nice just to get some sort of reply. I always appreciate someone being straight up and direct, as long as they use some tact. Hope to hear from some awesome women! One last note to end my profile (for now anyway :P), Im always happy with a reply, even if its rejection :) ***UPDATE*** Naturally the end isnt the end anymore, always realising my profile needs just that little more :P Which turns out to be a fair bit more over time which eventually becomes alot :P Anyway... I have taken off all of my "Sexual Interests" and my more personal descriptions points such as length and width and so on, not because I am ashamed... I can tell you that I dont have anything to be ashamed of, just I think its something that should be on a need to know basis. I would rather a person picked me based on my profile rather then my length or preferences anyway :P IMPORTANT: Not that the other stuff isnt, but this seems to be something I should have had here ages ago... Almost positive that I couldnt offer anything serious. If your curious, feel free to ask why :)